Have you ever heard of the phrase, two sides of the same coin? If yes, then it would come in handy while you attempt to understand a Gemini guy, for guys born under this zodiac sign have dual and sometimes even multiple personalities to them. They have a mystic quality to their being which is difficult to trace from far. Only when you get close to a Gemini would you understand his different traits and characteristics. Gemini men love to make friends and gel well with almost everyone. But they have a tendency of moving over old friends to make newer ones. This is due to their constant need for discovering new and latest things. Ruled by the Twin, the conflicting energies of a Gemini male leaves his lover confused for most parts of the life. Love him or hate him for this, but that is how he is! To be with a Gemini, you need to be a free thinker, a radical person who is willing to see things from different angles. Once he finds you interested in his differential world of change, the two of you would definitely make a love connection. Remember, the more surprising and spontaneous you are, the more he will love you!
Gemini Man Personality Traits & Characteristics
The Bright Side
If regularity and routine is not your cup of tea, then Gemini man is the one who would best suit your desires. For rest, staying a little distant from this sun sign would be an ideal option. The word ‘change’ perfectly defines a Gemini guy. For, not a single Gemini guy is the same on two occasions or even two consecutive days. Popularly known for their multiple personality, Gemini’s have a tendency to display different traits. However, there are a few factors that remain constant with Gemini guys. Gemini men believe in sharing. So, right from money to knowledge, happiness to sadness, a Gemini would share almost everything with his associates. Most Gemini men are friendly and sociable. Interestingly, they get along well with almost everyone and have no ego issues. They love to be in crowd and are scared when lonely. A Gemini man wins the heart of his lady love with his intelligent yet witty talks. His brilliant conversational skills help him to talk his way into any opportunity or out of any tight spot. It wouldn’t be wrong to say that in a party, it is the Gemini guy who infuses life and blood and makes the party enjoyable and entertaining. The best way to deal with a Gemini guy is keep the guessing game on. For, if he discovers you completely, he’ll be on for the next girl in his life!
The Dark Side
If you happen to have studied psychology, you would be well aware of the concept of dissociative identity disorder. For others, here’s a brief. Popularly known as split personality disorder or multiple personality disorder, it is a condition in which a person displays two or more split identities. Now, you may be wondering what has that to do with a Gemini guy? Well, nothing literally and everything personally. Confused? Well, the prime or foremost characteristic feature of a Gemini man is his multiple personality. He can be the sweetest person on Earth one day, but the very next day, don’t be surprised if he turns as cold as ice. So, if a Gemini guy compliments you today for your lovely voice, the next day don’t expect the same. What’s more, he can even turn into your worst critic as well. But the third day, he has the capability of winning back your love by his gentle nature so much so that you may feel like a queen. Stability, consistency and regularity are terms that stand nowhere in the dictionary of a Gemini guy. However, if you are game to his quirkiness, life can be full of interesting surprises for you. You will be waking up with a different man each day (not literally!), though the change may be for the better. The cue to deal with a Gemini man is to stay a little distant from him. Just remember, Gemini men have a personal side which they share with none, including their lover.
Before you hit the road to love with a Gemini guy, note that he isn’t one of those who would constantly comfort or reassure you. For, he is too restless or fidgety to succour anyone. Symbolized with the Twins, Gemini men are lovers of change. But that does not mean they cannot stay committed to a single relationship. Once committed, Gemini men are loyal to their lovers in a compartmentalized segment of their mind. But you need to understand that there are multiple compartments in the mind of a Gemini. As long as you are mystery that he loves to unfold, the Gemini would be interested in you. But once, he discovers that there is nothing new to you, he will be tempted to look elsewhere. Boredom and monotony also makes a Gemini guy run away from the relationship. The key to keep the Gemini man be yours forever is to never reveal everything to him. The thrill of discovering newer aspects of you would make him highly interested in you.
Intelligent and brainy woman are a turn on for Gemini men. Since they are not egoistic people, they love women who are mentally strong and receptive. A Gemini man would never mind if you defeat him at his mind games every now and then, in fact he will be thrilled at getting an intelligent partner-cum-competitor. In fact, a Gemini man always looks for a female who can match up with him and give him a tough competition. Also, a female who is as curious and excited as he is about the different aspects of life would lure a Gemini guy. While a Gemini guy does not commit soon to a relationship, once he does, he does so with complete faith and loyalty and expects the same from his partner. He is too idealistic to indulge in any sort of adultery. Once in a while, he may throw admiring glances at people but that is just about it. He wouldn’t go any further than this. But if you cast a suspicious stare at him every now and then, he might be tempted to do what didn't even think of doing before. The only way to best deal with a Gemini male is to let him have his independence and freedom. Also, assure him that you’ll be by his side always, but not get too close or dependent of him. Once this is done, he would walk a thousand miles with you without even looking back for once!